February is the worst time of year for anyone who is single and actively looking to develop a relationship. Walking into any store bombards you with love messages, balloons, expensive flowers, and questions about when you’ll finally meet someone.
Surviving Valentine’s Day isn’t always easy, but it is possible when you can take these steps to have some more fun with the experience.
Tip #1: Take Care of Yourself
What is it that makes you a special person? What are some of the things you like to do for fun? Instead of thinking about being single, get yourself out there to take care of yourself. Instead of buying things for others, invest that money into you.
Tip #2: Find a Friend
If Valentine’s Day is bothersome for you, don’t spend the evening alone in front of the television. Grab a friend and do something with the day. You could do some volunteering, find an online class to take, or place a call to someone you haven’t spoken with in a while. Taking this step will stop you from feeling like you’re on an island.
Tip #3: Spend Time with Loved Ones
You don’t need to have a spouse, a boyfriend, or a girlfriend to turn Valentine’s Day into a special event. This day is about celebrating the loves in your life that you do have. If you make plans with your siblings, parents, or best friend, it can still be a fantastic experience. You’ll discover that more couples than not don’t have plans for this holiday, so there are numerous opportunities available to do something fun.
Tip #4: Stay Away from Restaurants
Restaurants are packed on Valentine’s Day with couples and families celebrating their relationships. When you’re single, that’s the last thing you want to see. You could cozy up to the bar, but that action risks meeting someone even more desperate than you feel. Order from your favorite place, have someone deliver it, and enjoy a movie with someone you appreciate.
You can turn Valentine’s Day into a positive experience with some proactive efforts. Once you get past the holiday, you can start focusing on finding that relationship you want again.